August '08: Advice for the 1st Years
Going into this year of teaching, it almost seems like I have been doing it for a long time. My advice for the First Years includes the following:
Plan. Plan. Plan. Always have a plan. Always make a plan. Always have a back-up plan. Things do NOT always go as they are supposed to in school, so for every plan, make sure that you have an alternative if the copier breaks; you have to hold home room for two hours; if you are supposed to do some things on your planning period and your principal has you covering another teacher’s room. Always have a plan.
Be courteous to others. You never know who can help you out at the school. Be nice to everyone (that’s just the Southern thing to do anyway). It will get you far! Janitors, Secretaries, Librarians-these people need to become your new best friends. They can should where supplies and books are that no one else would even dream about knowing. They also know what teachers have what supplies. They are the backbone of the school. Keep these people close. Be nice to the cafeteria people as well. If you are a hungry person, they will “hook you up” from time to time. They also don’t mind saving some of the good things behind so that you can get them.
Be a hard donkey. Your kids may seem like little angels in your classroom for the first week and a half; however they are really just testing you and learning you to see what they will be able to get away with. Be CONSISTENT. Don’t bow on a rule, because you like the student, and they act better than Johnny. Even if kids cannot pick up on your lesson or anything that you try to teach them, they will pick up on bias in a heartbeat! Be fair. They are human beings.
It’s ok, if you can’t get everything done at one time. Pick a task, do it and do the rest later. Don’t make school your entire life, because it WILL consume you. Find people, non teachers and talk to them from time to time. They will just keep you sane. When you still converse with your fellow teachers, make sure that outside of school, you call them by their first name. Hearing your first name from time to time, keeps you grounded! Last, but not least, try, try, TRY not to talk about your students. Make yourself have a life.
Use the students to your advantage. Many times you will have kids who beg to clean the board, sweep the classroom, and file the papers…LET THEM! Take some stress off of you and let them maintain the classroom. They want to do it, and you should want the help. Disclaimer: I am NOT telling you to break any confidentiality agreements. You will get to know your students. As they say at school, “use your professional judgement.” :)
Call parents early about the good things. Don’t wait until the child is completely horrible, before you call. The parents will not want to hear that bad news and will be less receptive of it. On the same note, don’t be afraid to call parents. Some parents do not know what their child is doing in your class. Many will handle their child at home after you speak with them. There are some parents who don’t care, but you have to take that risk. At least when you call, you have documentation that you have tried to contact the parent about the child’s behavior and still a solution has not been reached.
The final, most important piece of advice is to let the students know that you care. If students know that you believe in them and that you won’t give up on them, they will do their best for you. They might not lean towards you at first, but eventually, they will appreciate you for always staying on them to help them be better. Remember, to be a real teacher you have to love what you do!
